Do any of us really think we will be tested when we say those words? Most of us are 20 somethings in the middle of a most euphoric day surrounded by everything beautiful. As it should be. I know I have always felt I could stand by Shaye’s side no matter what. You can’t truly appreciate the difficulties surrounding these vows until you find yourself living it.
Shaye has blown me away with his commitment and dedication. This is our 20th year of marriage, and he still surprises me. He hasn’t complained, not even once. 6 years of my illness has taken its toll on all of us, and we have both felt like we were at the end of our ropes at times. But it’s like he saw this transplant as a last hope and hit the situation head on, all guns firing. That gave me the strength to do the same.
Shaye takes notes every time the doctor enters the room. He remembers things I’ve forgotten and asks questions. He continues to make meals for me constantly searching for things I might eat, and never gets frustrated when I can’t, which is every time right now. He plays guitar to help me relax. He shops daily for the things we need. He helps me with the humiliating things like bathing. He gets up with me in the middle of the night when I’m hugging the toilet or laying on the bathroom floor, and always manages to peel me up and get me settled again.
At the age of 43, I am sure nobody expects their life to go off the rails, but it can. If it does, the bright side is that it shows you the strength in your partnership you may have forgotten.
For the record, Shaye and I were married in Mazatlan. We have no idea what was said because the “judge” couldn’t speak a word of English, he could barely even say our names.
Peace & Love
Trish xo
Trish G 
Trish. What a wonderful tribute you’ve written to Shaye. You married an amazing man who has truly shown you by his actions how committed he is to you during this journey you’re on together. May you continue to get better every day with him standing firmly beside you. You are all in my prayers every night. Hugs and strength from Edmonton.
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Good to read your notes today. Good of you to acknowledge Shaye and all the help and support he is giving to you. Love is certainly more than feelings, it is action. Every little thing he does shows how much he loves you. God has blessed you with a wonderful partner who is walking this road with you. We continue to pray for your recovery and for your family.
Love
Barry and Shirley
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What a great husband you have, so loving and supportive. You and your family are blessed. I’ve always liked and respected him from watching Global. Sending you love and blessings.
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To Trish & Shaye Your frienship,love n marriage speaks volumes . There is not alot of couples that stay together past 5 yrs now. Its a different world now. I envy you 2 for being able to stay together and fight for one another in the most toughest struggle in your lives ! Your kids will learn and grow from this and they will marry some day and tough it out when things dont go the way they are suppose to . They will both have learned to love with unconditional love cause they’ve learned from the best!
Hang toughyou guys there is a light at the end of the tunnel for you. If Shaye ever needs a few hrs break theirs will always be someone to step in for awhile and help out !!!
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Hi Trish .your comment for richer or poorer till death do us part,l don’t think they are taken as serious today has they were years ago .it goes to show you have a very remarkable man.but if the shoe was on the other foot l know you would be there for him.your love for each other is till death do us part .Be happy,get better my love and prayers goes out to you and your family.Tell Shayne l miss him on Globle,and to keep playing those sweet notes on his guitar
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